Wednesday, June 11, 2014

"Man Up?" Try Shutting Up.

 
At what point in our history did it become acceptable to bash people publicly for virtually reason -- or even no reason?  Actually, forget acceptable. In 2014, it has become almost mandatory. In the quest to be noticed -- in the fight for readership, reaction and response, perhaps it is just easier to bang out 100 vitriolic characters of venom than it is to craft 100 insightful sentences of something meaningful.

 

Isn't that the American way?  Easier instead of better?  Anything to make noise that rises above all the … noise.

 

Why is it that the opinion of a 280 pound couch potato with a bag of Cheetos in one hand and a smart phone in the other, holds any weight at all?  And since when does having a forum translate into actually having something to say?

 

Social media went into full flogging mode Thursday night during game-1 of the NBA Finals when LeBron James cramped up so badly that he had to be carried from the court. "Man up!" was the sentiment most often expressed on Twitter.  Sure, some of it was kind of humorous…




                               

And some of it was just an opportunistic way for businesses to get noticed…

                             
 


  But most of it?  Most of it was just mean-spirited nonsense…

 

 Even Jonathan Martin weighed in.  You remember him, right? He's the former Dolphins lineman who left the team, in part because he couldn't handle the verbal taunts of some of his teammates.  Amazingly, Martin tweeted at LeBron, "Bruh, drink some Gatorade and get back in there!"

 

Essentially, "Man up."

 

Muscle cramps are debilitating. Short-lived, perhaps, but debilitating none-the-less. Telling somebody who's having cramps to "Man up and get back in there" makes as much sense as heckling a paraplegic in a wheel chair. "Stand up, ya bum!"

 

Let's all take a step back. Let's all pause a moment for some perspective. And let's all ease up on each other a bit.  Cramps can be a bitch… but so can karma!   




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